“Hello, may I please speak to Kadisha?” I said over the telephone, in an anxious tone that I learned watching TV. I was in 5th grade, and I wish it were Kadisha, my first biggest crush, that picked up the phone. But instead, it was her Mom. “SHE’S NOT HERE – WHO’S THIS?!” – Momma Kadisha said emphatically. –CLICK. I hung up, to scared to respond.
This was my first time experiencing a bouncer. For all you club-goers, you know what that is, in terms of …

















