Ralph on Relationships: Bouncers: Gatekeepers of Relationships

LET. ME. IN.

LET. ME. IN.

“Hello, may I please speak to Kadisha?” I said over the telephone, in an anxious tone that I learned watching TV.  I was in 5th grade, and I wish it were Kadisha, my first biggest crush, that picked up the phone.  But instead, it was her Mom.  “SHE’S NOT HERE – WHO’S THIS?!” – Momma Kadisha said emphatically.  –CLICK. I hung up, to scared to respond.

This was my first time experiencing a bouncer.  For all you club-goers, you know what that is, in terms of …