Ralph on Relationships: The Secret Squirrel

June 30th, 2011 Posted in Advice, Opinion, PINO PER DIEM, Relationships
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IT'S A SECRET.

IT'S A SECRET.

“I got a secret, BUT YOU CAN’T TELL ANYONE,” Nick said, to his friend who got downgraded to an acquaintance.  He was once called a friend to James, the recipient of the information.  James wasn’t sure how to take the news, the so-called “secret” had implications that would pit friend against friend, catalyzing hurt feelings, and not to mention whomever the bearer of bad news would be to blame.

This dilemma is called a Secret Squirrel.  The definition? One who is deceived into becoming a false …

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44CAST – EPISODE 11 – FISCALLY RESPONSIBLE EDITION

June 29th, 2011 Posted in 44CAST, Advice, PINO PER DIEM
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MORE MONEY, MORE RESPONSIBILITY.

MORE MONEY, MORE RESPONSIBILITY.

Another 44Cast on deck! This week Chad and I are bringing you topics that include:

- His Broken Android Phone
- Finances and Credit Cards
- Playlists

Enjoy!

Episode 11: Finance by 44cast

Until next time.

-Pino44…

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HOW-TO TUESDAY: REMEMBERING NAMES

June 28th, 2011 Posted in How-To Tuesdays, Opinion, PINO PER DIEM, Relationships
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NICE TO MEET YOU!

NICE TO MEET YOU!

Last Tuesday marked the official, seasonal start to the summer – where the degrees are guaranteed at a minimum of 80 and the kids in schools are out from it to play.  For us adults, that means outdoor gatherings, rooftop bars, and BBQ’s galore.  It means meeting your friends, their friends, and people you want to become your friends.

I’m sure you’ve come across this – where you meet a friend, and then you meet his other friends, John, James, Jane, and Jeremy.  Chances are there …

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What I Learned on Sunday – Honing Hobbies

June 27th, 2011 Posted in Advice, Opinion, PINO PER DIEM, Sunday Learning
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RBC'S VERY OWN.

RBC'S VERY OWN.

Sunday, yesterday was a time for strong self-reflection.  On a beautiful sunny day, I thought of the downs and ups I’ve experienced in the short ½ a year-and-some-change, and looked back on the ridiculous month that was.

“Open your eyes, look within.  Are you satisfied with the life you’re living?” – Bob Marley

I was lucky to see an old co-worker and great friend, Kirk, my inseparable partner in crime in the summer of 2009.  We were back in our old stomping grounds – Long Beach, NY.  …

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Ralph on Relationships: Intensity is Everything.

June 23rd, 2011 Posted in Advice, Opinion, PINO PER DIEM, Relationships
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MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE.

MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE.

When it comes to relationships, timing is everything. But the very root of that timing is the intensity, or the level in which you like or love someone. Let me suggest an example that you either know to well personally, or you have been on the receiving end – the short end of the stick, if you will.

The easy part is meeting someone. If you’re out in the public, you could meet anyone seemingly anywhere. You can meet someone at the bookstore, on your way to work, …

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Episode 10. 44Cast

June 22nd, 2011 Posted in 44CAST, PINO PER DIEM
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Castaways.

Castaways.

Here is your weekly dose of the 44cast! Listen to Chad and I as we discuss:

-  The week that was.
-  The NBA Finals Wrap-up
-  Dirk’s persistence
-  Moving

Also, check us out on iTunes! Just go to the  following link and click the RSS tab!

44cast: Episode 10: 2011 NBA Finals Wrap Show by 44cast

Enjoy!

-Pino44…

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How To Deal With the Depressed.

June 21st, 2011 Posted in Advice, How-To Tuesdays, Opinion, PINO PER DIEM
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IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE OUTLOOK.

IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE OUTLOOK.

As I constantly talk about the ups and downs that life brings, its nearly impossible for your circle to always be on the same page of happiness.  I’ve also given tips on how to get yourself out of a rut, but what about when life is a peach for you, but not for one of your best cohorts?  Here are the best strategies to comfort someone in their time or need, or just to get out of their way and let them be:

TREAT …

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